Look at your child and consider if they actually know how to survive if something should go wrong with you, are they able to even climb a tree!?
What are their aims in life, do they even know how to write a story?
You speak but your children cannot hear you, so act instead. Reduce feeding them into technology, show them how to make lemonade, swim, dance, be creative, do their taxes, budget, the laws of the land, how to apply for college, how to apply for a scholarship and why it is better, how to save, how to have good credit, how to fix a car, how to farm, why bullying is wrong, the vital things in life.
Teach your children the things you wish your parents taught you! Help them solve the maze of life.
Explore with your children. It is easy to be successful as a parent but it is hard to be a parent that failed.
Most important of all, love them!