The great Valentine’s day, alot of women deny how much they look forward to this day.
There is nothing wrong with having expectations of your partner but if you have been together long enough you should not expect someone that said they do not celebrate such occasions to get you a gift or even write you a letter, providing any sweet gestures is just not going to happen.
A short story:
It’s valentines day and work just ended, we walk to the mall nearby the office, we we’re now more than friends and I knew he had developed feelings for me but gave no serious thought to it. We stepped inside a store and I browsed couple items but was not interested in anything there as the quality was not of my liking.
The guy I was with saw some gift sets and came to me asking for my choice, I responded by telling the truth, “I wouldn’t waste money on any of these, they are fake perfume sets.” , He still insisted that I picked one and informed me that it was not for me so it does not matter, he just did not want to go home and have his girlfriend arguing that he did not get her a gift.
End of that story.
If you have noticed by now, it is not a case where he gave any actual thought to the gift, it’s just to get her quiet. Men want gifts, in fact they want alot of things even when they do not provide the security to have those things provided.
My point is to think before you argue, consider just accepting a gift and not putting too much thought into why it was given but most serious is to not force yourself into getting someone a gift that means nothing, it will give implications that you do not want.
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